HI gpritch
Thank you for your post, I'd like to extend you a warm welcome to the Community Forum, I hope you find it a valuable resource.
Could you please specify which chat box icon you're referring to? As for the electronic payment that you can't see, You can go to Banking>>Reconcile Accounts, and check if EP (electronic transaction) is ticked. If yes, please untick it and try to look for it on the Bank feeds screen as it should then appear.
Let me know if you need further assistance with this. I'm happy to assist you.
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Cheers,
Cel